Your pain is real. Your healing can begin on your own terms.
When a partner’s betrayal — an affair, hidden compulsive sexual behavior, or long-running deception — upends your world, the wound is a genuine trauma. You may feel hypervigilant, unable to stop the intrusive thoughts, and unsure what was ever real. The Betrayal Trauma Intensive is a private, one-on-one weekend focused entirely on you: your safety, your reality, and your recovery — whatever you decide about the relationship. Guided by a CSAT-trained, trauma-informed clinician.
“You are a trauma survivor, not a codependent. Your reaction is a normal response to a real injury — and your healing does not have to wait on anyone else.”
— The betrayal-trauma approach at LifeWorks Recovery
Who This Intensive Is For
This private, one-on-one intensive is for the betrayed partner who needs focused, trauma-informed time to heal — on their own timeline.
After Discovery
For partners reeling from discovering an affair, compulsive sexual behavior, or hidden deception.
Doubting Reality
For those left questioning what was real after gaslighting, secrecy, and broken trust.
Trauma Symptoms
For partners carrying hypervigilance, intrusive images, anxiety, or emotional flooding.
Your Own Healing
For anyone who needs support focused on themselves — not only the couple’s work.
Whatever you decide about the relationship, your recovery is yours. This intensive can stand alone, run alongside your partner’s Sex Addiction Intensive, or prepare you for a couple’s Safe Harbor Intensive — we’ll help you sequence it.
What We Work On
Each intensive is shaped around you and your pace. Common areas of focus include:
Safety & Stabilization
Settling the nervous system first — grounding, the Window of Tolerance, and tools to move out of panic and shutdown.
Reality-Validation
Naming what happened clearly, so you stop doubting your own perceptions. We help undo the effects of gaslighting.
Trauma Processing
Gently working through the intrusive images and painful moments so they loosen their grip on the present.
Boundaries & Safety Plan
Clarifying what you need to feel safe — transparency, space, and non-negotiables — and how to ask for it.
Reconnecting With You
Rebuilding self-trust, self-worth, and the parts of your life the betrayal put on hold.
Support & Aftercare
A plan for ongoing support — individual counseling, groups like S-Anon or a betrayal-trauma group, and community.
A Trauma-Informed Frame
What the Weekend Looks Like
The Betrayal Trauma Intensive is usually scheduled across Friday evening, Saturday, and Sunday for a total of 16 or 20 hours, customized to you.
Safety First
We settle in, calm the nervous system, and reframe betrayal trauma — what it is, why you feel the way you do, and that it’s a normal response.
Validate & Process
Reality-validation and gentle trauma processing — letting the pain be heard, undoing gaslighting, and easing the grip of intrusive thoughts.
Boundaries & Forward
Clarifying boundaries and a safety plan, reconnecting with yourself, and building an aftercare plan for continued support.
16-Hour or 20-Hour
Set together at your brief, free upfront consultation.
Investment
Priced per individual on the same basis as our other intensives. Every intensive begins with a brief, free consultation that sets your exact scope.
16-Hour Intensive
Fri evening + full Saturday + half Sunday, per individual.
20-Hour Intensive
Fri evening + full Saturday + full Sunday, per individual.
Includes your private space in Addison, materials, and refreshments throughout. Lodging and dining are nearby (not included). Final scope is set at your brief upfront consultation.
Common Questions
Am I “codependent” for being this hurt?
No. Your pain is a normal, healthy response to a real betrayal. This work treats you as a trauma survivor and validates your reality — it doesn’t pathologize it.
Do I have to decide about my relationship first?
Not at all. This intensive is about your healing, whatever you decide. Many partners find clarity comes more easily once they feel steadier.
How is this different from the Safe Harbor Intensive?
Safe Harbor is a couple’s intensive (both partners). This one is individual — focused entirely on your own healing. You can do either, or both.
Does my partner have to be in recovery?
No. Your healing doesn’t depend on their choices. If they’re ready, the individual Sex Addiction Intensive and couple’s work can run alongside.
Is it confidential?
Yes. This is a private, one-on-one intensive in a discreet space in Addison.
Dallas Counseling Office
LifeWorks Recovery Counseling Center
4201 Spring Valley Road, Suite 1430
Dallas, TX 75244
Explore Related Programs
Your healing is yours — and it can be supported from several directions. These LifeWorks programs often work alongside your intensive.
Betrayal Trauma Group
A weekly, trauma-informed group for partners after betrayal — validation, grounding, and community with people who truly understand.
Sex Addiction Intensive
If your partner is doing the work on compulsive sexual behavior, they have their own one-on-one intensive — separate from, and complementary to, yours.
Safe Harbor Intensive
If and when you’re ready to do the work together, the Safe Harbor couples intensive focuses on betrayal trauma and trauma-informed disclosure.
Take the First Step, Privately
A confidential consultation is the simplest way to find out if the Betrayal Trauma Intensive is right for you. There’s no pressure — just a warm, honest conversation about where you are and what could help.