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When to talk to kids about sex

When should I start talking to my child about sex? Honestly, now. It’s never too early to start. In today’s world, children will hear and see sex everywhere from advertisements, songs, movies, video games, etc. There is no way to shield them completely, so being a part of the conversation gives you control over what they accept as truth.  Children being able to talk openly and honestly with their parents about sex, sexuality, and sexual development builds trust, reduces shame, and ultimately keeps them safe.   

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Helping children regulate

How to Help Children Regulate Their Emotions Let’s be honest, we all flip our lids sometimes. We’re human—we’re going to get angry, overwhelmed, anxious, and/or defiant. Children are human too, and they need help learning how to regulate and cope with their big emotions.   The “flipped lid” analogy helps parents understand what is happening in a child’s brain when they are having a big reaction (a fit, tantrum, hitting, screaming, etc.). The prefrontal cortex is where our executive functioning is located. This part

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How To Have Fun in Recovery

Figuring out to have fun without drugs, alcohol, porn, and/or sexual escapades we once pursued can be really difficult and, to some, feel like it is impossible to achieve. For most that struggle with addiction, the concept of fun is a foreign concept unless one is under the influence of something.  The ironic and very important aspect of sobriety and recovery is finding joy and fun again is essential to one’s change.  Without a little bit of fun in our

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How To Respond If Your Teen Is Looking At Porn

So, you discover your teen is watching porn and you’re asking “what do I do now?”. It is important to talk about pornography with your teen. However this is a sensitive subject, so it is vital that you handle this conversation with the care and respect it deserves.    Why It Is Important To Talk To Your Teen About Porn Why do I need to have a talk? Exposure to porn during adolescence can be harmful. Viewing porn can leave

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How To Stay In Recovery During Social Distancing

We live in strange times. Right now, sobriety from substances and continuing on the path of positive sexual well-being and health is severely challenged on a global scale.  In the midst of all of this, people are coming together all over the world to help others stay connected while staying at home.  Below is a list of resources, meetings, and applications for those struggling with addictions of all kinds and/or mental health issues to help stay connected, sober, and sane

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Tips for Parents during COVID-19

Y’all, things are weird. I have felt a whirlwind of emotions in response to the coronavirus and quarantine (panic, grief, stress, anxiety). Parents are being hit tenfold because they’re having to worry about their own lives as well as their children’s. First, I want to give kudos to parents who are now working from home as well as homeschooling! Your hands are full, and I can’t imagine the array of emotions you must be feeling. Kids are feeling these things,

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